Tuesday, August 4, 2015

Team Sorting

Getting caught up now finally. Last Saturday we went to Circle S Ranch so Ben could do some team sorting. I always go feeling out of place and leave thinking horse people are so friendly.
I also don't edit my pictures anymore with our new crazy computer update...so here they are, off center, garbages, bad lighting and all.
 Pledge at the beginning...
 Waiting their turn 
 Team sorting starts with ten cows
all marked with a number
A team of three riders has to sort them in numerical order beginning with a random first number, such as 4, then 5, 6, and so on.
The fastest time in the right order wins.

The announcer for the night loves Ben and always tries to get him to come.
He was as entertaining as watching the sorting!








Art, Football, Beach, Pioneers

Canvas Art
  then they made their own fresh squeezed lemonade and baked apples that they thought they tasted like apple pie.
The best part was that they did all the work :)

Cody did a football camp last week and was pretty excited to tell us that he scored two touchdowns in his last game of the week. They ran them hard that week, it was great!

 Beach days are always fun with friends


 Macey flying a kite! 

  Macey has really taken to boogie boarding lately. I've got to get a picture!
 Today we had ward beach day. It's always fun but I was dragging my feet.
Some days I don't feel like packing up enough junk for a week and walking it a mile (mostly) by myself. But Cody needed to play with some boys, desperately. (He tells me all the time he needs a brother. Good thing he has Rushmad.) So we went and he played all day with his friends who are boys and loved every minute! We always love beach days.

I found this super random paper from 1997 somewhere in my stuff.
#7 - If I could live anywhere, it would be - somewhere by a beach.
Perfect.
And why would I choose a bus for a free car? That is weird.

Stake pioneer day is always so fun.
Ben and Kayla waited in line over an hour until everyone was almost gone for these balloons!!

Swim Lessons

Kayla swimming across the pool!
Cody and Macey showing us one of their strokes they worked on:

Dana Point

I feel like Dana Point can easily be done in a day, and it was a fun day!
More if you go to the beach - but that was for the next day. Baby beach right off to the left of this ship at the institute has no waves and tons of paddle board rentals - we may have to come back and try it out!
We went to the Ocean Institute for a couple of hours.


 I LOVE this quote!!

The kids learned about purchases, pulleys, and how hard it is to pull up 100 lbs. without it,
and a bunch of other educational things like what they use kelp for (tons of things -like toothpaste!)

 We also went to a visitor center at Doheny Beach. They had a little tide pool and a bunch of cool ocean creatures for the kids to see. Plus a butterfly garden with a butterfly that just came out of its cocoon.
Then we went to the Nature Interpretive Center - it has a trail on a cliff above the ocean.
This was my favorite part and the kids least favorite part. I'm doing my best to get them as much exercise as possible this summer! 



Saturday, August 1, 2015

Be Still: a Lesson on Reverence

I am teaching sharing time in primary on Sunday and I'm pretty excited.
We are having a lesson on Reverence. 
(Cause we need it. Summer gets a little wild:)!)

To start I am going to tell a very simplified story of

Finding a Treasure:
I have always loved collecting sea shells. 
But the one I found on this particular day is special.
I found it on South Beach in Oregon half tucked in the sand like this one:
 I loved South Beach because you could walk 100 yards into the ocean and the water would barely cover your rain boots.
There were always pieces of sand dollars at this beach, and I really wanted one.
We came alone to the beach. And by alone I mean we were new and alone to Oregon and Ben was working.
He worked 355 days of the 365 days that year - and not 8 to 5 - sun up to after sun down.
Moms of young kids know the feeling of constant chaos and needs of little people and the irony of feeling so isolated when you're constantly surrounded.
And I felt it, even while I loved watching these cute kiddos run around:
To make it more poignant,
While we were there we saw these people on the beach:
Doesn't that look fun?
I wished I could do that.
But they don't let moms with 3 babies go.
Then, I turned around and saw this:
I could see Ben and I doing that. (Except I would look super unskilled.)
But he was working.
At that point, I had a hard time seeing when these circumstances would ever change.
This was heavy on my mind. I prayed for peace while I stood quietly and watched the waves.
After walking just a couple more steps in the water
I stopped and looked down to find my treasure:
Three days before we came here I wrote down my list of goals on my blog and I had listed: find a sand dollar.
I'll be explaining to the kids that this treasure has to be handled carefully and kept in a special place.
How do we treat treasures? How I take care of a treasure is respecting it. In a similar way, we can treat treasures that are Heavenly Father's with respect and care. In places such as the temple, church, or, the scriptures, our family, and even ourselves. This is showing reverence to Him. 

Psalms 46:10 says,
 "Be still, and know that I am God."
If I had been doing this:
I never would have found this:
Finding treasures of knowledge don't always come from fun adventures, they come from quiet moments of reverence and reflection.
And that can bring true happiness.
Wherever you are.

Really, our outside circumstances can be beautiful or holy in and of themselves, but it is what's inside us that determines reverence or holiness to us.
We have been counseled to stand in holy places. Here are some other "holy places" to me:


even though it looked more like this:

“Reverence is an attitude toward Heavenly Father and His Son Jesus Christ... It is something we feel inside our hearts no matter what is going on around us.” L. Tom Perry

In church, keeping our bodies still 
literally helps prepare our hearts and minds to receive inspiration.
And let the spirit teach us about God.
"Be still, and know that I am God."

California does have a lot to do, but I am hoping to find more treasures by finding balance. 

We sure do miss South Beach!!

  1. Rev'rence is more than just quietly sitting:
    It's thinking of Father above,
    A feeling I get when I think of his blessings.
    I'm rev'rent, for rev'rence is love.
    When I'm rev'rent, it shows in my words and my deeds.
    The pathway to follow is clear.
    And when I am rev'rent, I know in my heart
    Heav'nly Father and Jesus are near.

    Some of the basic ideas aren't mine, they're from a friend from another wards' sharing time, but I heard it was good and she let me use them!